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Wednesday, July 09, 2008

Answer please!

I never understood why some of you, men, flirt with other women, when you are in a relationship? you say you are in love with the woman, but will say to another that she is beautiful or that you enjoye her body.
Some of you will even go as far as saying that you will be interested into something else than just a friendship with that woman that is not your girlfriend or wive?
And lady, why do they do it? Or if you do the same thing with men, why?

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Blogger Tex said...

Probably immaturity, or possibly also compounded by biology making men likely to want to sow their seed around, thereby having more chance of having an offspring (this is at a sub conscious level, i believe, but without some level of maturity, can be allowed to occur). This is not an excuse, but, if it is accepted that men and women are different and have different hormones in their bodies, then the fact is that their brains will work differently, and, like anything, it is hard to understand someone who dares to think in a way which we ourselves may not be able to embrace.


It seems obvious that this would not be an appropriate thing to do if you expect a relationship to continue, but, in my case, my relationship is, for all intents and purposes, dead anyway, according to her, so I suppose I do it now out of seeking a bit of contact with a woman, even if it is just flirting with someone on the other side of the world.

If I was in a relationship with someone, I wouldn't want to flirt with others, but sometimes these flirt moments arise, so it is possible to find oneself involved in flirting and only after to be able to detach enough to stop doing it again.

Or maybe there is some other explanation?

12:47 AM  
Blogger Jill said...

Tex, your explanation is good!
This guy I'm talking about start doing some serious flirting with me while he was in a previous relationship. They eventually broke up and we went on a date.At this point, we knew we had a crush on each other in high school. And now, he is back in a new relationship, and he flirt it again with me yesterday. I won't go out with a guy in a relationship, but he is surely not making it easy!

4:53 AM  
Blogger Southern Sage said...

because its fun
fun to flirt
guys just want to be wanted
or think they r wanted
thats why.

11:03 AM  
Blogger Jill said...

I like flirting, too, Sage, but I'm single and I can play if I want too. But I wouldn't play with someone already taken!

12:41 PM  
Blogger Riff Dog said...

Simple. Because we're dogs. We do our thinking with our little heads instead of our big ones.

9:48 AM  
Blogger Jill said...

What should I exept else from someone who's nickname is Riff dog?
And why don't you use your big brain more often?

12:05 PM  
Blogger CunningLinguist said...

The grass is always greener.

Men: We aren't as complicated as you'd like us to be.

Case in point, other women. We like to see what we are missing. Sometimes it works in your favor. If we take a look at what is upcoming in the new models, and are happy with our current selection, everyone wins.

I think it dates back to the whole propagation of the species thing.

That's why we fire a million sperm to conquer one egg.

1:34 PM  

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